Gratitude and Grief: Making Space for Both

Dear Friend,

As the holidays approach, you may feel torn. On one hand, gratitude is everywhere—family gatherings, blessings counted, joyful traditions. On the other hand, your grief sits beside you, aching for what is missing.

You don’t have to choose between them. Gratitude and grief can coexist. You can give thanks for what you have while still honoring what you’ve lost. You can smile and still carry sadness. Both belong.

This season, give yourself permission to feel it all. Gratitude doesn’t erase grief—and grief doesn’t erase gratitude. Together, they tell the fullness of your story.

With warmth,
Alishia

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About the author:

Alishia Anderson

Alishia Anderson

I’m Alishia Anderson, a stillbirth survivor who turned my pain into purpose after losing my firstborn son, DJ. Through my book Still Here and future endeavors, I’ve made it my mission to create safe spaces for honest conversations about grief, faith, and hope—for baby loss families, grievers, and anyone navigating life transitions.

I’m a wife, angel mommy to DJ, and a rainbow and golden mama to my two living children. Originally from Michigan, I now call Southern California home and am a proud graduate of Florida A&M University and Kennesaw State University.